“There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.” ― John Lennon

I have so many irrational fears ,yet when I ask myself that if I did do this , what’s the worse that could happen ? The answer always surprises me and I realise I wasn’t afraid of what could happen but of the unknown .
Don’t struggle against everything .Don’t let the fact that you normally don’t do it  , stop you or else all your life you will have a big chip of What on your shoulder.
Bad experiences make good stories  good experiences are worth it So try something new .Stop resisting .
Good life  are like good dreams .They start from the middle ,where you have no idea what.s happening yet you are so invested ,so that you do not care .That you let go , give up the control and let  the flow takes you wherever it wants to .Because you know that wherever you might end up ,will be immensely better than where you would have been ,had you tried to meddle . -Ann

“I can see you have a great deal of water in your personality. Water never waits. It changes shape and flows around things, and finds the secret paths no one else has thought about — the tiny hole through the roof or the bottom of the box. There’s no doubt it’s the most versatile of the five elements. It can wash away earth; it can put out fire; it can wear a piece of metal down and sweep it away. Even wood, which is its natural complement, can’t survive without being nurtured by water. And yet, you haven’t drawn on those strengths in living your life, have you?”
― Arthur Golden ,Memoirs of a Geisha